Getting Difficult Things Said

Assertively, Safely & with Respect

Having to handle “difficult” feedback situations is one of the most challenging and important aspects of being a respected manager and leader…. when giving performance feedback, and in many other situations. This course teaches participants how to set up and implement a structured approach to giving difficult feedback; to develop trust and rapport within the team or with clients; to handle awkward staff and typical customer feedback situations assertively and with respect; to skillfully diffuse potential conflict; and to praise and motivate colleagues.

Topics covered include:

  • The Art of Effective Feedback
  • How to Handle “Difficult” Situations… and People
  • Barriers to Effective Feedback
  • Think Coach, Not Policeman
  • And If Not? – Cause and Effect
  • Different Perspectives
  • The Importance of Praise
  • Reflective Listening Skills
  • Understanding Body Language
  • Assertiveness Skills & Saying No
  • Four Step Approach to Solving Problems
  • Handling & Diffusing Criticism
  • Sarcasm, Silence, and other forms of Aggression
  • Great Ways to Build Self-Esteem
  • Building Personal Resilience
  • “I “ rather than “You” – taking ownership of what we say
  • Don’t Give Concessions – Trade Them
  • Useful Phrases – a verbal toolkit
  • Real-Life Scenarios

… and any additional topics specifically requested by the participants

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